Kingdom Tension Part 4 with Discussion Guide
Kingdom Tension Part 4 Discussion Guide
Summary
Pastor Kevin delivered a sermon about the ‘secret sauce’ to relationships, drawing from Philippians 1:3-6. He outlined three key relational rhythms that can transform both easy and difficult relationships: being grateful for people, praying for them, and believing in them. The message emphasized how these intentional habits can revolutionize relationships in all areas of life – family, work, church, and community.
Intro Prayer
Lord, as we gather to discuss these important truths about relationships, open our hearts to receive Your wisdom. Help us to see others through Your eyes and give us the courage to apply these principles in our daily lives. Guide our discussion and help us grow closer to You and each other. Amen.
Ice Breaker
Who is someone in your life that you’re particularly grateful for right now, and why?
Key Verses
Philippians 1:3-6
Philippians 1:9-11
Questions
How does practicing gratitude change our perspective on relationships?
What makes it challenging to maintain gratitude in long-term relationships?
How has prayer changed your attitude toward someone who was difficult to love?
Which of the four prayer points (love, wise choices, integrity, Christ-likeness) resonates most with you and why?
How does hearing ‘I believe in you’ impact a person? Share a personal experience.
What practical steps can we take to show people we believe in them?
How can we maintain these three rhythms (gratitude, prayer, belief) consistently in our relationships?
Which of these three relational rhythms do you find most challenging to practice and why?
Life Application
This week, choose one person in your life and intentionally practice all three rhythms with them: express gratitude for them, pray for them using the four prayer points discussed, and find a way to communicate that you believe in them. Journal about how this impacts your relationship.
Key Takeaways
Gratitude transforms relationships and prevents taking others for granted
Praying for others changes our own hearts, even if it doesn’t change them
The four prayer points: growth in love, wise choices, integrity, and Christ-likeness
Expressing belief in others through the words ‘I believe in you’ can revolutionize relationships
God believes in us and continues His good work in our lives
Ending Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for believing in us and starting a good work in our lives. Help us to be people who consistently practice gratitude, prayer, and belief in our relationships. Give us the strength and wisdom to apply these rhythms daily, and may our relationships bring glory to Your name. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
This series may be taken as a course offered by the Online Bible Institute. For more information check out the Keys Vineyard Ministries Courses page.
Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.
