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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 1 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 1 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on the Kingdom Wisdom Part 1 sermon from Keys Vineyard, preached from Matthew 7:1–5. The message calls followers of Jesus to practice humility: before focusing on another person’s speck, we must allow God to address the plank in our own eye.

  Summary

  Jesus’ command, “Do not judge,” does not mean His people should never discern right from wrong. Rather, Jesus warns against a judgmental spirit that assumes the worst about others, ignores context, and places itself in God’s role. Kingdom wisdom discerns without condemning, speaks truth without losing love, and seeks restoration rather than simply exposing someone’s failure.

  The sermon emphasizes that believers often want justice for others while seeking grace for themselves. Jesus calls us to remember the grace and mercy God has given us. As we honestly examine our own hearts, grace changes how we see people: superiority gives way to compassion, condemnation gives way to humility, and criticism becomes an opportunity for gentle restoration.

  Intro Prayer

  Jesus, quiet our hearts and slow our minds as we meet together. Give us wisdom that does not rush to judgment but pauses to love. Search us, show us where we need Your grace, and teach us to see others through the mercy You have freely given to us. Shape the way we speak, see, and love. Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  Think about the window-and-mirror illustration from the sermon. Is it easier for you to notice what is happening in other people’s lives or to honestly examine your own heart? Why do you think that is?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:1–5 — Jesus warns against judging others while ignoring the plank in our own eye.
  • John 7:24 — “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.”
  • James 2:12–13 — Mercy triumphs over judgment.
  • Galatians 6:1 — Those who live by the Spirit are called to restore someone caught in sin gently while watching themselves.
  • Psalm 139:23–24 — David asks God to search his heart, reveal offensive ways, and lead him in the everlasting way.

  Questions

  1. What stood out most to you from this message, and why?
  2. How would you explain the difference between discernment and a judgmental spirit? Why is that distinction important for followers of Jesus?
  3. The sermon said it is possible to know, believe, and practice the right things while still treating people terribly. Why can this happen, and what helps prevent it?
  4. Where do you see the tendency to seek “justice for them” and “grace for us” in everyday life? How have you seen this tendency in your own responses?
  5. Jesus does not say the speck is unreal. How does recognizing that sin and failure are real help us avoid the opposite error of pretending that nothing needs to be addressed?
  6. Why might a person be completely right about an issue but still be completely unhelpful? What does Galatians 6:1 teach about the goal and posture of correction?
  7. What might “plank work” look like in your life right now? What attitudes, motives, wounds, habits, or patterns could God be inviting you to examine?
  8. The sermon encouraged us to pause before criticizing, posting, repeating information, or assuming someone’s motives. Which kind of pause would be most challenging and most helpful for you this week?

  Life Application

  Choose one situation this week in which you may be tempted to criticize, make assumptions, repeat something you heard, or respond quickly online. Before responding, pause and pray: “Father, is there some plank work that I need to deal with first?”

  Then pray Psalm 139:23–24 in your own words. Ask God to reveal what is happening in you and to help you respond with both truth and love. If a difficult conversation is needed, consider how you can pursue restoration gently rather than simply proving that you are right.

  For continued encouragement in living out Jesus’ teaching in everyday relationships, explore the resources at Church Encourager.

  Key Takeaways

  • Kingdom wisdom begins with humility and honest self-examination.
  • Jesus calls His people to discern what is true without condemning people.
  • The measure we have received from God is grace, so mercy should shape how we respond to others.
  • Being right is not the same as being helpful; correction should seek gentle restoration.
  • Plank work is ongoing. Believers continue to need Jesus and His grace every day.
  • A simple pause can interrupt harsh judgment and create room for humility, wisdom, and love.

  Ending Prayer

  Father, search us and know our hearts. Show us any offensive way in us, and lead us in the way everlasting. Forgive us for the times we have been quick to judge, slow to listen, and unwilling to recognize our own need for grace. Help us discern without condemning, correct without despising, and speak truth without losing love. Make us people who restore gently and reflect Your mercy to those around us. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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• Kingdom Alignment Part 13 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Alignment Part 13 Discussion Guide

  Summary

  In this closing message of the “Kingdom Alignment” series, the pastor draws from Matthew 6:31-33 to explore what it means to seek God’s kingdom first. Jesus, preaching the Sermon on the Mount to an overworked and anxious crowd, offers not just a command to stop worrying but a better direction for the heart. The pastor explains that worry is often rooted in what we are pursuing, and that the restless striving to secure enough money, comfort, approval, or control is like running on a treadmill: exhausting effort with no real progress.

  The sermon centers on the call to “seek first his kingdom and his righteousness,” emphasizing that this is a matter of priority and alignment. Righteousness is not something we earn but a gift received through Christ, as described in 2 Corinthians 5:21. The Father already knows our needs, so we do not seek the kingdom to convince God to care for us. We seek it because He already does. The pastor closes with three practical steps: identify what you have been running after, ask each morning what it looks like to seek God’s kingdom first that day, and simply do the next right thing, trusting the Father with tomorrow.

  Intro Prayer

  Heavenly Father, we come before You today with open hands and willing hearts. As we gather to discuss Your Word, we ask that You quiet the noise of our worries and the pull of our own pursuits. Holy Spirit, be welcome here. Teach us to love what You love and to see our lives through the lens of Your kingdom. Whatever You want each of us to receive from this time together, let that be what takes root. We trust You with our needs, our questions, and our conversations. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is one thing you have always wanted to be really good at, and have you ever actually tried to pursue it?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 6:31-33
  • 2 Corinthians 5:21

  Questions

  • The pastor described worry as being closely tied to what we are pursuing rather than just our circumstances. Do you agree with that connection? Can you think of a time when your worry was really about something you felt you had to secure?
  • Jesus says the pagans ‘run after’ things like food, clothing, and security. What are some modern equivalents of that restless pursuit that you see in everyday life, or even in your own life?
  • The pastor used the image of a treadmill to describe endless striving: lots of effort, no real movement. Have you ever experienced that feeling in your own pursuit of security or success? What did it feel like?
  • Matthew 6:32 says your Heavenly Father already knows what you need. How does that truth change the way you approach prayer or the way you think about your daily concerns?
  • The sermon described seeking the kingdom as bringing every part of life under the loving rule of the Father, not just adding religious activity to a busy schedule. What is the difference between those two things in practical terms?
  • The pastor mentioned that righteousness is a gift we receive in Christ, not something we earn. How does understanding righteousness as a gift rather than a performance change the way you relate to God day to day?
  • The three practical steps offered were: identify what you are running after, ask each morning what it looks like to seek God’s kingdom first, and do the next right thing. Which of those three feels most challenging for you personally, and why?
  • The sermon closed by saying the kingdom is the treasure and the Father is the reward. What does it look like in real life to treat God Himself as the goal rather than treating Him as a means to get what we want?

  Life Application

  This week, choose one area of your life where you have been striving or worrying, whether it is finances, relationships, health, or something else. Each morning, bring that area to God and ask Him one simple question: ‘Father, what would it look like to seek Your kingdom first in this today?’ Then take one faithful step in that direction. At the end of the week, reflect on whether that daily question shifted your focus from the provision to the Provider.

  Key Takeaways

  • Worry is often rooted in misplaced pursuit. When our needs become the organizing center of our lives instead of God’s kingdom, we end up in restless, exhausting striving that leads nowhere.
  • The Father already knows what you need. We do not seek the kingdom to earn God’s attention or care. He already sees us and knows our needs, which means we can seek Him from a place of trust rather than desperation.
  • Seeking the kingdom first is a matter of priority and alignment. It means asking what God is doing, what reflects His rule and reign, and how our lives can participate in His will, bringing every part of life under His loving authority.
  • Righteousness is a gift received through Christ, not something we earn. To seek His righteousness means allowing our lives to increasingly reflect His character as we live from that gift rather than performing for it.
  • Practical kingdom living involves three steps: honestly identifying what we have been running after, asking each morning what it looks like to seek God’s kingdom first that day, and trusting the Father enough to simply do the next right thing without needing to solve tomorrow.

  Ending Prayer

  Lord, thank You for the reminder that You already know what we need and that You care deeply for each person in this room. As we leave this discussion, help us to step off the treadmill of anxious striving and walk with You instead. Align our hearts to Your kingdom. Where we have been chasing the wrong things, redirect us gently toward You. Give us the courage to ask each morning what it looks like to seek Your kingdom first, and the faith to take the next right step even when we cannot see the whole path. You are the treasure, Father. You are the reward. May we live like we believe that this week. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.