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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 11 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 11 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on the message Kingdom Wisdom Part 11 from Keys Vineyard, focused on Jesus’ teaching about the wise and foolish builders in Matthew 7:24–27.

  Summary

  Storms come to everyone. Jesus does not promise that those who follow Him will avoid hardship, but He calls His people to build their lives on the rock by hearing His words and putting them into practice. Storms reveal what we have been depending on for security. A life built on financial stability, personal ability, approval, or control will eventually be shaken. A life built on Jesus can stand—not because the storm is small, but because the foundation holds.

  God’s promise is not always to remove the storm. Often, He meets His people in the middle of it with His presence, grace, strength, peace, and the help of others. Daily dependence on Jesus helps believers continue taking the next faithful step, even when life feels uncertain.

  Intro Prayer

  Lord Jesus, thank You for being our firm foundation. As we discuss Your Word, help us to be honest about the storms we face and the things we depend on for security. Teach us to hear Your words, put them into practice, and trust You more deeply. Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  When severe weather is approaching, what preparations do you usually make? What does that preparation reveal about the things you consider important to protect?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:24–27 — Jesus contrasts the wise builder who builds on the rock with the foolish builder who builds on sand.
  • John 16:33 — Jesus says that His followers will have trouble in the world, yet He has overcome the world.
  • Psalm 46:1–3 — God is our refuge, strength, and ever-present help in trouble.
  • Isaiah 43:1–2 — God promises to be with His people as they pass through waters, rivers, and fire.
  • 2 Corinthians 4:7–9 — Believers may be hard pressed, perplexed, persecuted, and struck down, but God sustains them.
  • Hebrews 12:28 — We are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken.

  Questions

  1. In Matthew 7:24–27, both houses experience the same rain, rising streams, and winds. Why is it significant that the wise builder is not exempt from the storm?
  2. What are some common ways people may assume that following Jesus should make life easier or prevent hardship? How does John 16:33 correct that expectation?
  3. The message emphasized that experiencing a storm does not necessarily mean someone has done something wrong. Why is that truth important when we walk through suffering ourselves or support someone else in hardship?
  4. Before the storm, the two houses may have looked similar. What are some foundations that can appear secure in good seasons but become unstable when life is difficult?
  5. When circumstances feel outside your control, what are you most tempted to depend on: your own ability, financial security, other people’s approval, control, or something else? Why?
  6. What is the difference between becoming more self-sufficient and becoming more dependent on Jesus? What might dependence on Jesus look like in a practical situation you are currently facing?
  7. Isaiah 43:1–2 repeatedly uses the word “when,” not “if.” How does God’s promise, “I will be with you,” change the way believers can face storms?
  8. According to 2 Corinthians 4:7–9, standing firm does not mean never feeling afraid, discouraged, confused, or in need of help. How can a group or church community help one another keep returning to Jesus in difficult seasons?

  Life Application

  Take time this week to prayerfully consider these three questions:

  • What am I depending on to give me security?
  • What happens to my trust when life becomes difficult?
  • What does it look like to build my life on Jesus today?

  Choose one specific next step. You may need to bring a worry to the Father, ask someone for help, forgive someone, make a difficult but faithful decision, or simply pray, “Jesus, I don’t know, but I trust You,” and then do the next right thing.

  For continued study of Scripture and a deeper foundation in biblical truth, explore the resources available through Online Bible Institute.

  Key Takeaways

  • Storms are part of life in a broken world, even for those who follow Jesus.
  • Hardship reveals what we have truly built our lives upon.
  • Jesus is not calling us to greater self-sufficiency but to greater dependence on Him.
  • God may not always remove the storm, but He promises His presence in the midst of it.
  • Standing firm means continuing to return to Jesus, receive His grace, and take the next faithful step.
  • God’s kingdom cannot be shaken, even when everything around us feels unstable.

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You for being our refuge and strength. Help us recognize the things we have trusted more than You, and lead us into deeper dependence on Jesus. When storms come, remind us that You are with us. Give us grace to hear Your Word, put it into practice, and keep taking the next faithful step. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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• Discipleship Often Begins With One Conversation

  When we talk about discipleship, it is easy to imagine programs, classes, curriculum, and carefully organized ministry structures.

  Those things can be helpful.

  But some of the most meaningful discipleship happens when one person makes room in their life for another.

  It begins with a conversation.

  Someone Took Time for Us

  Most of us can remember someone who encouraged us during an important season.

  Perhaps they answered a question, prayed with us, helped us understand Scripture, or simply listened when life was difficult.

  They may not have considered themselves a mentor.

  They were simply available.

  And their willingness to invest in us made a difference.

  Jesus Invested in People

  Jesus taught crowds, but He also invested deeply in a smaller group of disciples.

  They watched Him pray. They listened to His teaching. They saw how He responded to people. They asked questions and sometimes misunderstood what He was saying.

  Jesus patiently continued forming them.

  Discipleship involved life together.

  You Don’t Need to Have Every Answer

  One reason Christians hesitate to mentor others is that they feel unqualified.

  What if someone asks a difficult theological question?

  What if we don’t know what to say?

  But discipleship does not require pretending to have everything figured out.

  Sometimes a faithful response is simply, “That’s a good question. Let’s explore Scripture together.”

  We are all continuing to learn from Jesus.

  Begin With Listening

  Before offering advice, take time to understand the person.

  What are they experiencing? What questions are they asking? Where are they growing? What feels difficult?

  James 1:19 reminds us to be quick to listen and slow to speak.

  Good listening communicates care and often helps us recognize what kind of encouragement would actually be helpful.

  Keep the Relationship Simple

  Mentoring does not always require a formal commitment lasting several years.

  Perhaps you begin by meeting for coffee once a month.

  You might read a Gospel together, discuss a passage of Scripture, or pray about something happening in everyday life.

  Consistency matters more than complexity.

  Help People Discover Their Next Step

  Rather than making every decision for someone, ask questions that encourage discernment.

  What do you think Jesus is inviting you to do?

  What have you learned from Scripture?

  What might a faithful next step look like?

  Good mentoring helps people grow in maturity rather than becoming dependent upon the mentor.

  Encouragement and Calling

  Sometimes a conversation helps someone recognize gifts or opportunities they have not considered.

  The Encourager Pathways provide tools for exploring spiritual growth, gifts, calling, and service.

  These resources can support conversations about how a person might participate more meaningfully in the life and mission of the church.

  Discipleship Multiplies

  Paul encouraged Timothy to entrust what he had learned to faithful people who would be able to teach others (2 Timothy 2:2).

  That is a beautiful picture of multiplication.

  One person invests in another, who eventually becomes capable of encouraging someone else.

  Churches do not need to choose between organized discipleship and relational discipleship. Healthy structures can create opportunities for meaningful relationships.

  Who Could You Encourage?

  Think about someone in your church or community who may appreciate a conversation.

  You don’t need to begin by announcing that you want to become their mentor.

  Begin with interest, kindness, and availability.

  Ask how they are doing. Listen. Pray. See where the relationship leads.

  For church leaders interested in developing healthier discipleship and leadership pathways, explore Church Encourager or request a conversation.

  Additional biblical and ministry education is available through Online Bible Institute.

  Sometimes the beginning of meaningful discipleship is as simple as one person saying to another, “Would you like to get together and talk?”