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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 5 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 5 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on Kingdom Wisdom Part 5, preached at Keys Vineyard. In Matthew 7:9–12, Jesus connects the goodness of the Father with the Golden Rule: because God gives good gifts, His people are called to actively do good to others.

  Summary

  Jesus teaches that the Father is good, generous, and trustworthy. He gives good gifts to those who ask Him. Matthew 7:12 begins with the word “so,” connecting the Father’s goodness to the way His people live: “In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.”

  The Golden Rule is more than avoiding harm. Kingdom love takes initiative. It asks not only, “How can I avoid making things worse?” but also, “How can I make things better?” Jesus calls us to change places with others—to consider how we would hope to be treated before we speak, criticize, assume motives, repeat information, or respond to someone’s failure. We give kindness, grace, mercy, patience, and forgiveness because we have first received them from God.

  Intro Prayer

  Father, thank You for being good, generous, merciful, and faithful. Help us receive Your love more deeply and let that love shape the way we treat the people around us. Give us open hearts as we listen, speak, and learn together. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Ice Breaker

  Think of a time when someone made a difficult day better through a small act of kindness, patience, encouragement, or practical help. What did they do, and why did it matter to you?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:9–12 — The Father gives good gifts, and Jesus calls His followers to do to others what they would have others do to them.
  • Luke 6:31–36 — Jesus calls His people to love enemies, do good, lend without expecting repayment, and be merciful as the Father is merciful.
  • Philippians 2:3–4 — Believers are called to reject selfish ambition, value others, and look to their interests.
  • Matthew 22:37–40 — Love for God and love for neighbor summarize the Law and the Prophets.
  • Ephesians 4:32–5:2 — As dearly loved children, believers are called to be kind, compassionate, forgiving, and committed to walking in love.

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  Questions

  1. In Matthew 7:9–12, Jesus moves from the Father’s good gifts to the command to do good to others. Why is it important that kingdom love begins with receiving from God rather than trying to produce love by our own strength?
  2. The sermon emphasized that the word “so” in Matthew 7:12 connects the Golden Rule to the goodness of the Father. How does knowing that God is good and generous change the way you approach relationships?
  3. What is the difference between merely avoiding harm and actively doing good? Which approach comes more naturally to you, and why?
  4. Consider the illustration of someone struggling with heavy bags. What are some “heavy bags” people around you may be carrying that you could help bear in practical ways?
  5. Jesus calls us to put ourselves in another person’s place. In what situations are you most tempted to focus first on your own inconvenience, opinion, or hurt?
  6. Before speaking criticism, making assumptions, or repeating information about someone else, how might the Golden Rule guide your response? What might change in your words or tone?
  7. Luke 6:35–36 calls believers to love enemies, do good, and be merciful because the Father is merciful. What makes this kind of love difficult, and where do you need God’s help to live it out?
  8. The sermon described two ways of moving through the world: “What can I get?” and “What can I give?” How do these two mindsets show up in ordinary life, such as at home, work, church, or in public?

  Life Application

  Before one important interaction this week, pause and ask:

  • If I were in their place, how would I hope to be treated?
  • Father, help me treat them the way I would want to be treated.

  Then do the next right thing. You may need to listen carefully, encourage someone, forgive, tell the truth gently, offer help, give another chance, or notice someone you would normally walk past. Do not try to change the whole world in one week; look for the person God places in front of you.

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  Key Takeaways

  • The Golden Rule flows from the goodness and generosity of the Father.
  • Kingdom love is active, intentional, and willing to take the initiative.
  • Jesus calls us to consider another person’s place before we respond.
  • Love for God and love for neighbor are central to the Law and the Prophets.
  • We give grace, mercy, kindness, and forgiveness because we have received them from God.
  • Kingdom living asks, “What can I give?” rather than only, “What can I get?”

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You for Your goodness toward us. Thank You for loving us, forgiving us, showing us mercy, and giving us life through Jesus. Change our hearts and help us reflect Your character in our relationships this week. Teach us to be kind, compassionate, patient, generous, and forgiving. Help us see the people You place in front of us and do the next right thing in love. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 4 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 4 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on Kingdom Wisdom Part 4 from Keys Vineyard. In this message, the church considers Jesus’ teaching that the Father gives good gifts to His children and learns to keep asking, seeking, and knocking while trusting God’s goodness.

  Summary

  Jesus invites His people to approach God as a loving Father. In Matthew 7:9–11, He uses the picture of a child asking a parent for bread or fish. A loving parent would not respond by giving a stone or a snake. If imperfect human parents know how to give good gifts, how much more can believers trust their Father in heaven?

  The sermon emphasizes that confidence in prayer is not based on praying perfectly or using the right formula. It is based on God’s character. God does not promise to give every requested outcome, but He does promise to give what is good. Sometimes His answer is strength, grace, patience, or enough light for the next step. Ultimately, the greatest gift God gives is His presence—the Holy Spirit and life with Him. When circumstances make God’s goodness difficult to understand, the cross assures us that God is for us.

  Intro Prayer

  Father, thank You for welcoming us as Your children. As we talk together, help us see You more clearly as a good Father who knows, loves, and cares for us. Give us honesty about the prayers we carry and faith to trust Your goodness when we do not understand Your answers. Lead us closer to Jesus through Your Holy Spirit. Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is a gift you received that was especially meaningful because the giver knew you well? What made that gift meaningful?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:9–11 — Jesus teaches that the Father gives good gifts to those who ask Him.
  • Luke 11:13 — Luke records Jesus saying that the Father gives the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him.
  • 2 Corinthians 12:7–10 — Paul asks for his thorn to be removed, but God answers with sufficient grace and strength in weakness.
  • Romans 8:31–32 — God’s giving of His Son assures believers that He is for them.

  For additional biblical learning resources that can help your group study Scripture together, explore the Online Bible Institute.

  Questions

  1. Jesus’ invitation to ask, seek, and knock raises a deeper question: “Can I trust the Father?” Why do you think trust in God’s character is so important for prayer?
  2. How can a person’s view of God—as distant, disappointed, angry, reluctant, or loving—shape the way that person prays?
  3. In Matthew 7:9–11, what do the examples of bread and a stone, fish and a snake, teach us about the Father’s heart toward His children?
  4. The sermon says that God gives good gifts, not necessarily everything we ask for. How is that distinction both difficult and hopeful?
  5. Consider the illustration of a parent refusing to give car keys to an eleven- or thirteen-year-old child. How can a loving “no” or “not yet” help us think about God’s answers to prayer?
  6. Paul asked God three times to remove his thorn, but God answered, “My grace is sufficient for you” (2 Corinthians 12:9). What might it look like for God to provide grace and strength within a difficult circumstance?
  7. Luke 11:13 identifies the Holy Spirit as the Father’s gift. What does it mean to move from praying, “Father, give me what I want so I can live my life,” to praying, “Father, be my life”?
  8. Romans 8:31–32 points to the cross when we question whether God is good. Why does Jesus’ sacrifice provide a deeper foundation for trust than changing circumstances?

  Life Application

  Take a few quiet moments to identify one request you have been carrying before God. Keep bringing that request to Him. Ask, seek, and knock. Then add this prayer: “Father, I trust Your goodness even when I do not understand Your answer.”

  Choose one “next right thing” you already know God is calling you to do this week. It may be a faithful act of obedience, a conversation, an act of forgiveness, a practical responsibility, or simply continuing to pray. Trust God with what you cannot see while walking faithfully in what you do know.

  If your group would benefit from encouragement and practical discipleship resources, Church Encourager offers ongoing material to help churches and small groups grow in faith.

  Key Takeaways

  • Prayer is grounded in the character of God, not in our ability to pray perfectly.
  • God is a good Father who loves His children and knows what is truly good for them.
  • God’s answer may differ from our request, but His goodness is not determined by whether we understand His answer.
  • God may give grace, strength, patience, and guidance within hardship rather than immediate escape from it.
  • The Holy Spirit and God’s presence are the greatest gifts believers can receive.
  • The cross settles the question of the Father’s heart: God is for His people.

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You that You are good and that You love us. We bring You the requests, burdens, questions, and disappointments we carry. Help us keep asking, seeking, and knocking. Give us grace to trust You when Your answer is different from what we hoped for. Remind us through the cross that You are for us, and fill us with Your Holy Spirit. Help us receive life from You rather than trying to control every outcome. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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