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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 6 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 6 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on Kingdom Wisdom Part 6, preached at Keys Vineyard from Matthew 7:13–14.

  Summary

  Jesus places two ways before us: a broad road that is easy to follow because it moves with the crowd and cultural currents, and a narrow road that leads to life. This narrow way is not merely a list of religious rules; Jesus Himself is the way, the truth, and the life. From the two trees in Genesis to the two ways in Psalm 1 and Matthew 7, Scripture continually calls people to receive life from God rather than trying to define, control, or secure life on their own terms.

  The sermon reminds us that small decisions become direction, direction becomes a road, and roads lead somewhere. Rather than trying to fix every area of life at once, we are invited to ask God where we are drifting and take the next faithful step with Jesus.

  Intro Prayer

  Father, thank You for inviting us into life with You. As we discuss Your Word, help us honestly see the direction our lives are moving. Show us where we are following cultural currents instead of following Jesus, and give us grace to take the next faithful step with Him. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Ice Breaker

  Think about a time when you were carried along by a current, crowd, schedule, or expectation without fully realizing where it was taking you. What helped you recognize that you needed to change direction?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:13–14 — Jesus describes the wide gate and broad road that lead to destruction, and the small gate and narrow road that lead to life.
  • Genesis 2:8–9 — The tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil reveal the early biblical pattern of dependence on God or self-directed autonomy.
  • Psalm 1:1–3 — The person rooted in the Lord is like a tree planted by streams of water that bears fruit.
  • Proverbs 14:12 — A way can appear right while ultimately leading to death.
  • John 14:6 — Jesus says, “I am the way and the truth and the life.”
  • Deuteronomy 30:19–20 — God sets life and death before His people and calls them to choose life by loving, listening to, and holding fast to Him.
  • John 10:10 — Jesus came so that His people may have life “to the full.”

  Questions

  1. What stands out to you most from Jesus’ picture of two gates, two roads, and two destinations in Matthew 7:13–14?
  2. The sermon connects the two trees in Genesis with two ways of living: dependence on God and autonomy apart from Him. Where do you most clearly see that choice in everyday life?
  3. Psalm 1 describes a person rooted in God as a fruitful tree planted by streams of water. What practices or relationships help you stay rooted in the Lord?
  4. Why can the broad road be appealing? Which currents named in the sermon—such as ambition, comparison, consumerism, anger, self-protection, or doing whatever makes us happy—feel especially strong in our lives or culture?
  5. Proverbs 14:12 warns that something can seem right and still lead in the wrong direction. Why is it important to seek God’s wisdom rather than relying only on what feels right?
  6. How does understanding that “the narrow way is a Person” change the way you hear Jesus’ words about the narrow gate? How is following Jesus different from simply trying harder to follow rules?
  7. Where might Jesus be calling you to move differently from the crowd—in forgiveness, loving enemies, trusting the Father, treating others well, or seeking God’s kingdom first?
  8. The sermon says that small decisions become direction, direction becomes a road, and roads lead somewhere. What is one ordinary decision or habit that may be shaping your spiritual direction right now?

  Life Application

  Set aside time this week to pray, “Father, show me where I’m drifting. Show me where I’m off course.” Consider one area where you may be trying to create, control, secure, or define life apart from God. Instead of trying to solve everything at once, identify one next right thing and take one next faithful step with Jesus.

  If you are new to following Jesus or want to revisit the foundations of faith, explore biblical learning resources through the Online Bible Institute. You can also stay connected with the worshiping community at Keys Vineyard as you continue learning to follow Jesus with others.

  Key Takeaways

  • Scripture consistently presents a choice between receiving life from God and seeking life on our own terms.
  • The broad road is easy because it follows the crowd and drifts with the surrounding currents.
  • The narrow way is Jesus Himself; following Him means learning to live with Him as King.
  • Jesus’ warning about destruction is also an invitation into full and abundant life now and forever.
  • Ordinary choices shape direction, and direction shapes destination.
  • Jesus does not merely point toward the narrow way; He walks the road with His people.

  Ending Prayer

  Jesus, You are the way, the truth, and the life. Forgive us for the places where we have followed the crowd, trusted ourselves more than You, or drifted from Your path. Help us choose life by loving You, listening to Your voice, and holding fast to You. Give each of us courage to take the next faithful step this week. Amen.

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• Kingdom Wisdom Part 5 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Wisdom Part 5 Discussion Guide

  This discussion guide is based on Kingdom Wisdom Part 5, preached at Keys Vineyard. In Matthew 7:9–12, Jesus connects the goodness of the Father with the Golden Rule: because God gives good gifts, His people are called to actively do good to others.

  Summary

  Jesus teaches that the Father is good, generous, and trustworthy. He gives good gifts to those who ask Him. Matthew 7:12 begins with the word “so,” connecting the Father’s goodness to the way His people live: “In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.”

  The Golden Rule is more than avoiding harm. Kingdom love takes initiative. It asks not only, “How can I avoid making things worse?” but also, “How can I make things better?” Jesus calls us to change places with others—to consider how we would hope to be treated before we speak, criticize, assume motives, repeat information, or respond to someone’s failure. We give kindness, grace, mercy, patience, and forgiveness because we have first received them from God.

  Intro Prayer

  Father, thank You for being good, generous, merciful, and faithful. Help us receive Your love more deeply and let that love shape the way we treat the people around us. Give us open hearts as we listen, speak, and learn together. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Ice Breaker

  Think of a time when someone made a difficult day better through a small act of kindness, patience, encouragement, or practical help. What did they do, and why did it matter to you?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 7:9–12 — The Father gives good gifts, and Jesus calls His followers to do to others what they would have others do to them.
  • Luke 6:31–36 — Jesus calls His people to love enemies, do good, lend without expecting repayment, and be merciful as the Father is merciful.
  • Philippians 2:3–4 — Believers are called to reject selfish ambition, value others, and look to their interests.
  • Matthew 22:37–40 — Love for God and love for neighbor summarize the Law and the Prophets.
  • Ephesians 4:32–5:2 — As dearly loved children, believers are called to be kind, compassionate, forgiving, and committed to walking in love.

  For ongoing biblical formation, groups may benefit from the Scripture-based courses and resources available through the Online Bible Institute.

  Questions

  1. In Matthew 7:9–12, Jesus moves from the Father’s good gifts to the command to do good to others. Why is it important that kingdom love begins with receiving from God rather than trying to produce love by our own strength?
  2. The sermon emphasized that the word “so” in Matthew 7:12 connects the Golden Rule to the goodness of the Father. How does knowing that God is good and generous change the way you approach relationships?
  3. What is the difference between merely avoiding harm and actively doing good? Which approach comes more naturally to you, and why?
  4. Consider the illustration of someone struggling with heavy bags. What are some “heavy bags” people around you may be carrying that you could help bear in practical ways?
  5. Jesus calls us to put ourselves in another person’s place. In what situations are you most tempted to focus first on your own inconvenience, opinion, or hurt?
  6. Before speaking criticism, making assumptions, or repeating information about someone else, how might the Golden Rule guide your response? What might change in your words or tone?
  7. Luke 6:35–36 calls believers to love enemies, do good, and be merciful because the Father is merciful. What makes this kind of love difficult, and where do you need God’s help to live it out?
  8. The sermon described two ways of moving through the world: “What can I get?” and “What can I give?” How do these two mindsets show up in ordinary life, such as at home, work, church, or in public?

  Life Application

  Before one important interaction this week, pause and ask:

  • If I were in their place, how would I hope to be treated?
  • Father, help me treat them the way I would want to be treated.

  Then do the next right thing. You may need to listen carefully, encourage someone, forgive, tell the truth gently, offer help, give another chance, or notice someone you would normally walk past. Do not try to change the whole world in one week; look for the person God places in front of you.

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  Key Takeaways

  • The Golden Rule flows from the goodness and generosity of the Father.
  • Kingdom love is active, intentional, and willing to take the initiative.
  • Jesus calls us to consider another person’s place before we respond.
  • Love for God and love for neighbor are central to the Law and the Prophets.
  • We give grace, mercy, kindness, and forgiveness because we have received them from God.
  • Kingdom living asks, “What can I give?” rather than only, “What can I get?”

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You for Your goodness toward us. Thank You for loving us, forgiving us, showing us mercy, and giving us life through Jesus. Change our hearts and help us reflect Your character in our relationships this week. Teach us to be kind, compassionate, patient, generous, and forgiving. Help us see the people You place in front of us and do the next right thing in love. In Jesus’ name, amen.

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