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• Kingdom Alignment Part 11 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Alignment Part 11 Discussion Guide

  Summary

  In this sermon, the pastor continues a series called “Kingdom Alignment” by focusing on Matthew 6:25-27, where Jesus says “Therefore, I tell you, do not worry.” The word “therefore” is highlighted as a crucial connector, showing that everything Jesus has taught leading up to this point, about treasure, vision, and masters, has been building toward this invitation to release worry and trust the Father. Worry is described as the result of trying to carry tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities, and it reveals a tendency to take on burdens that only God can truly bear.

  The pastor explains that worry feels productive but actually subtracts peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives without adding anything in return. The solution offered is not to pretend life is easy, but to make a deliberate shift from worry to prayer, using Philippians 4:6-7 as a practical anchor. Practical steps include naming what you are carrying, separating your responsibilities from God’s, and turning worry into prayer as soon as it surfaces. The core message is that the Father can be trusted with what we cannot control, and that prayer changes not always the circumstances, but who is carrying them.

  Intro Prayer

  Heavenly Father, we come before you today just as we are, carrying whatever is on our hearts and minds. We ask that you open our eyes and our hearts to what you want to speak to us through your Word and through each other in this group. Help us to set aside distraction and worry, and to be fully present with you and with one another. May your Spirit guide our conversation, and may we leave today a little lighter, having placed our burdens in your hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is one thing you always seem to overpack for when you travel, and why do you think you bring it even when you probably don’t need it?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 6:25
  • Matthew 6:27
  • Philippians 4:6-7

  Questions

  • The pastor described worry as ‘carrying tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities.’ Can you think of a time when you did this? What did it feel like, and how did it affect your daily life?
  • Jesus uses the word ‘therefore’ to connect His teaching on worry to everything He has said before about treasure, vision, and masters. Why do you think the foundation of where your heart is placed matters so much when it comes to anxiety?
  • The pastor said that worry reveals what we are trying to carry on our own. What kinds of burdens do you find yourself most tempted to carry rather than giving them to God?
  • Jesus asks, ‘Can any one of you, by worrying, add a single hour to your life?’ How does this rhetorical question challenge the way you think about the time and energy you spend worrying?
  • The pastor described worry as subtracting peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives. Which of these subtractions do you feel most in your own life, and how has it affected your relationships or your walk with God?
  • The pastor compared worry to sitting in a rocking chair: there is motion, but no forward movement. Does that image resonate with you? What does it look like in your own experience?
  • Philippians 4:6-7 calls us to bring everything to God through prayer and thanksgiving, with the promise of a peace that transcends understanding. Have you experienced that kind of peace after praying through something you were anxious about? What happened?
  • The pastor suggested three practical steps: naming what you are carrying, separating your responsibilities from God’s, and turning worry into prayer. Which of these feels most challenging for you, and why?

  Life Application

  This week, choose one specific worry or fear that you have been treating as a present reality even though it has not happened yet. Write it down and give it a name. Each time it comes to mind, use Philippians 4:6-7 as your guide: bring it to God through prayer and thanksgiving instead of rehearsing it in your mind. At the end of the week, reflect on whether that shift changed how you felt, even if the circumstances did not change.

  Key Takeaways

  • Worry reveals what we are trying to carry on our own. It is the result of taking on tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities, including outcomes, problems, and responsibilities that belong to God.
  • Worry forgets how deeply the Father values us. When we lose sight of our identity as God’s beloved children, we become more vulnerable to anxiety and the burden of self-reliance.
  • Worry cannot produce what it seems to promise. It feels productive but only subtracts peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives without adding anything.
  • The shift from worry to prayer is the practical answer Jesus and Scripture offer. Prayer does not always change the circumstances, but it changes who is carrying them, and that makes all the difference.
  • Everything in Matthew 6 has been building toward this point: because the Father is our treasure, our vision, and our Master, we can trust Him with what we cannot control.

  Ending Prayer

  Lord, thank you for this time together and for the reminder that we do not have to carry what was never ours to carry. We confess that we often pick up tomorrow’s burdens and try to manage them with today’s strength, and we are exhausted by it. Right now, we choose to place those burdens back into your hands. You are faithful, you are good, and you love us more than we can fully understand. Guard our hearts and our minds with the peace that only you can give, the peace that passes all understanding. Help us to walk out of here a little lighter, and to return to prayer every time worry tries to pull us back. We trust you, Father, with what we cannot control. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.

• Kingdom Alignment Part 10 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Alignment Part 10 Discussion Guide

  Summary

  In this message, the pastor explores what it means to live with an undivided heart as part of the ongoing series on Kingdom Alignment. Drawing from Psalm 86:11 and Matthew 6, he walks through three key truths about the heart: the heart always moves toward what it loves, the heart sees through what it loves, and the heart eventually serves what it trusts. Each of these points connects back to the central question of whether our hearts are divided or whole in their devotion to God. The pastor emphasizes that Kingdom Alignment is not about trying harder or following a checklist of spiritual disciplines. It is about allowing the Holy Spirit to continually shape us into people whose whole hearts belong to the Father. Through the promise of a new heart found in Ezekiel and the invitation of the gospel, Jesus offers us freedom from divided loyalties and the clarity that comes from being fully aligned with God. The practical challenge is to ask God to reveal where our hearts have become divided and to pray daily, “Lord, give me an undivided heart.”

  Intro Prayer

  Heavenly Father, thank You for bringing us together today. As we open Your Word and discuss what it means to live with an undivided heart, we ask that You search us and reveal any areas where our hearts have drifted. Holy Spirit, we invite You into this conversation. Help each of us to be open and honest, and may what You want us to receive today take root deeply in our hearts. We trust You to lead this time. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is one hobby or activity that you find it nearly impossible to do halfway? You always end up going all in on it.

  Key Verses

  • Psalm 86:11
  • Matthew 6:19-21
  • Matthew 6:22-23
  • Matthew 6:24
  • Ezekiel 36:26-27

  Questions

  • The pastor described the heart as something that always moves toward what it loves. What are some everyday things that quietly compete for the center of your heart without you even realizing it?
  • David prays in Psalm 86:11, ‘Give me an undivided heart.’ Why do you think he prays for an undivided heart rather than a stronger or smarter heart? What does that tell us about what we actually need?
  • The pastor said that if we are motivated by guilt or shame, our hearts are not truly being changed. How have you experienced the difference between doing something out of obligation versus doing it out of genuine love for God?
  • Jesus says in Matthew 6:22-23 that the eye is the lamp of the body. The pastor connected this to spiritual perception, saying that what our hearts value shapes how we see the world and the people around us. Can you think of a time when your heart posture changed how you viewed a situation or a person?
  • The pastor mentioned that anything, including comfort, success, approval, or control, can become an idol if it replaces simple love for Christ. Which of those four do you think is the most subtle and hardest to recognize in your own life?
  • God promises in Ezekiel 36:26-27 to give us a new heart and put His Spirit in us. How does knowing that a whole heart is something God gives us, rather than something we manufacture on our own, change the way you approach your spiritual life?
  • The pastor shared the story of missionaries searching for “persons of peace” and connected it to the idea that an undivided heart can have a powerful impact on the people around us. Who in your life might be watching to see if your faith is real? How does that motivate you?
  • The pastor closed by encouraging everyone to pray, ‘Lord, give me an undivided heart,’ as a daily practice this week. What do you think would change in your daily life if that prayer became a genuine, consistent habit?

  Life Application

  This week, set aside a few quiet minutes each morning to pray the simple prayer from Psalm 86:11: ‘Lord, give me an undivided heart.’ As you go through your day, pay attention to the moments when you feel pulled in a different direction, whether by fear, comparison, the need for approval, or the desire for control. When you notice those moments, pause and ask God to reveal what your heart is trusting in that moment. At the end of the week, journal or reflect on what He showed you and bring it back to your small group or a trusted friend.

  Key Takeaways

  • The heart always moves toward what it loves, which means what we treasure and value will ultimately shape the direction of our lives.
  • The heart sees through what it loves, so our spiritual perception and how we view the people around us is directly connected to what our hearts are aligned with.
  • The heart eventually serves what it trusts, and anything that replaces simple love for Christ can become a divided loyalty that pulls us away from the Father.
  • Kingdom Alignment is not about trying harder or doing more. It is about allowing the Holy Spirit to continually align our hearts with the Father.
  • Jesus offers us a whole heart through the gospel. He promises new hearts and His Spirit within us, freeing us from divided allegiance so we can live fully aligned with God.

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You for this time together and for the truth that You do not ask us to fix our divided hearts on our own. You promise to give us new hearts and to place Your Spirit within us. We ask that You take everything we have discussed today and let it move from our heads into our hearts. Where we have been trusting in comfort, success, approval, or control, we surrender those things to You now. Teach us Your ways, Lord, that we may rely on Your faithfulness. Give each person in this group an undivided heart, one that treasures You, sees the world through Your eyes, and follows You as the one true Master. May our lives be a witness to the people around us that knowing You changes everything. In the name of Jesus, amen.

  Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.