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• Kingdom Alignment Part 12 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Alignment Part 12 Discussion Guide

  Summary

  In this sermon, the pastor continues the Kingdom Alignment series by focusing on the faithfulness of God and how trusting Him is the antidote to worry and anxiety. Drawing from Matthew 6, he highlights how Jesus invites anxious people to become observers of the world around them, pointing to birds and wildflowers as daily reminders that the Father provides, notices, and cares for His creation. Just as God feeds the birds and clothes the flowers with remarkable beauty, He cares far more deeply for each person made in His image.

  The pastor emphasizes that worry causes people to forget their value, and that the cross is God’s permanent declaration that every person matters to Him. He encourages the congregation to slow down, notice creation, and replace anxious thoughts with grateful ones. Trust in God grows one day at a time, through daily bread, daily dependence, and daily reminders of His faithfulness. The goal is not passivity but soul rest, a deep inner peace that allows believers to live fully and responsibly while remaining anchored in the care of a faithful Father.

  Intro Prayer

  Heavenly Father, we come together today grateful for Your presence in this room and in each of our lives. As we open Your Word and discuss what it means to trust You, we ask that You quiet the noise of worry and anxiety in our hearts. Help us to be open to whatever You want to speak to us today. Give us ears to hear, eyes to see, and hearts that are willing to receive. May this time together draw us closer to You and to one another. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is your favorite thing to notice in nature, whether it is a bird, a flower, a sunset, or something else, and why does it stand out to you?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 6:26
  • Matthew 6:28-30
  • Romans 8:32
  • Psalm 19:1-4

  Questions

  • Jesus tells His listeners to ‘look at the birds’ and ‘consider the wildflowers.’ What do you think He wants us to learn from these ordinary parts of creation?
  • The pastor said that worry causes us to forget our value. Have you ever experienced a season where anxiety made you feel less valued or cared for by God? What helped you through it?
  • Romans 8:32 asks, ‘He who did not spare his own Son, how will he not also graciously give us all things?’ How does reflecting on the cross change the way you think about God’s faithfulness in your daily life?
  • The sermon described soul rest as a deep inner peace that exists even while life is busy and difficult. Would you say your soul is at rest right now? What tends to rob you of that rest?
  • The pastor pointed out that Jesus almost always responds to complicated questions by pointing to ordinary, everyday things. Why do you think Jesus used such simple illustrations to teach about the kingdom of God?
  • The sermon mentioned that the culture trains us to notice what is wrong, while Jesus trains us to notice what is true. How have you seen this tension play out in your own life, especially with social media or the news?
  • The pastor shared a story about Hurricane Irma and how God provided exactly what was needed at exactly the right moment. Can you share a time when you experienced God’s faithfulness in a surprising or unexpected way?
  • The practical challenge from the sermon was to replace one anxious thought with one grateful thought. Why do you think gratitude is such a powerful tool for retraining the heart to recognize God’s faithfulness?

  Life Application

  This week, make a conscious effort to slow down and notice creation around you. When you see a bird, a flower, a sunrise, or any part of the natural world, let it serve as a personal reminder that your Father provides and cares for you. Additionally, each time an anxious thought arises, intentionally replace it with one specific thing you are grateful for. Keep a simple list on your phone or a notepad of these grateful moments throughout the week, and bring it back to share with your group next time you meet.

  Key Takeaways

  • Jesus invites anxious people to become observers of creation, using birds and wildflowers as daily reminders of the Father’s faithful provision and care.
  • Worry causes us to forget our value, but the cross is God’s permanent declaration that every person deeply matters to Him.
  • Trust in God grows one day at a time through daily dependence, daily prayer, and daily reminders of His faithfulness, much like the birds receive food and the flowers receive beauty one season at a time.
  • Trusting God does not mean passivity. We still work, plan, and act responsibly, but underneath all of that activity, our souls should experience a genuine rest rooted in the Father’s care.
  • Gratitude is a powerful practice that retrains the heart to recognize God’s faithfulness and helps us see what is true rather than what the culture tells us to fear.

  Ending Prayer

  Father, thank You for this time together and for the reminder that You are faithful, not just in the big moments, but in every ordinary day. As we leave this discussion, help us to carry with us a Spirit of gratitude and a willingness to notice Your hand at work in the world around us. When worry tries to creep back in, remind us of the birds You feed and the flowers You clothe, and remind us above all of the cross, Your greatest declaration that we are loved and valued. May our souls find rest in You this week, and may that rest overflow into the lives of the people around us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.

• Kingdom Alignment Part 11 with Discussion Guide

  Kingdom Alignment Part 11 Discussion Guide

  Summary

  In this sermon, the pastor continues a series called “Kingdom Alignment” by focusing on Matthew 6:25-27, where Jesus says “Therefore, I tell you, do not worry.” The word “therefore” is highlighted as a crucial connector, showing that everything Jesus has taught leading up to this point, about treasure, vision, and masters, has been building toward this invitation to release worry and trust the Father. Worry is described as the result of trying to carry tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities, and it reveals a tendency to take on burdens that only God can truly bear.

  The pastor explains that worry feels productive but actually subtracts peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives without adding anything in return. The solution offered is not to pretend life is easy, but to make a deliberate shift from worry to prayer, using Philippians 4:6-7 as a practical anchor. Practical steps include naming what you are carrying, separating your responsibilities from God’s, and turning worry into prayer as soon as it surfaces. The core message is that the Father can be trusted with what we cannot control, and that prayer changes not always the circumstances, but who is carrying them.

  Intro Prayer

  Heavenly Father, we come before you today just as we are, carrying whatever is on our hearts and minds. We ask that you open our eyes and our hearts to what you want to speak to us through your Word and through each other in this group. Help us to set aside distraction and worry, and to be fully present with you and with one another. May your Spirit guide our conversation, and may we leave today a little lighter, having placed our burdens in your hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Ice Breaker

  What is one thing you always seem to overpack for when you travel, and why do you think you bring it even when you probably don’t need it?

  Key Verses

  • Matthew 6:25
  • Matthew 6:27
  • Philippians 4:6-7

  Questions

  • The pastor described worry as ‘carrying tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities.’ Can you think of a time when you did this? What did it feel like, and how did it affect your daily life?
  • Jesus uses the word ‘therefore’ to connect His teaching on worry to everything He has said before about treasure, vision, and masters. Why do you think the foundation of where your heart is placed matters so much when it comes to anxiety?
  • The pastor said that worry reveals what we are trying to carry on our own. What kinds of burdens do you find yourself most tempted to carry rather than giving them to God?
  • Jesus asks, ‘Can any one of you, by worrying, add a single hour to your life?’ How does this rhetorical question challenge the way you think about the time and energy you spend worrying?
  • The pastor described worry as subtracting peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives. Which of these subtractions do you feel most in your own life, and how has it affected your relationships or your walk with God?
  • The pastor compared worry to sitting in a rocking chair: there is motion, but no forward movement. Does that image resonate with you? What does it look like in your own experience?
  • Philippians 4:6-7 calls us to bring everything to God through prayer and thanksgiving, with the promise of a peace that transcends understanding. Have you experienced that kind of peace after praying through something you were anxious about? What happened?
  • The pastor suggested three practical steps: naming what you are carrying, separating your responsibilities from God’s, and turning worry into prayer. Which of these feels most challenging for you, and why?

  Life Application

  This week, choose one specific worry or fear that you have been treating as a present reality even though it has not happened yet. Write it down and give it a name. Each time it comes to mind, use Philippians 4:6-7 as your guide: bring it to God through prayer and thanksgiving instead of rehearsing it in your mind. At the end of the week, reflect on whether that shift changed how you felt, even if the circumstances did not change.

  Key Takeaways

  • Worry reveals what we are trying to carry on our own. It is the result of taking on tomorrow’s possibilities as though they are today’s realities, including outcomes, problems, and responsibilities that belong to God.
  • Worry forgets how deeply the Father values us. When we lose sight of our identity as God’s beloved children, we become more vulnerable to anxiety and the burden of self-reliance.
  • Worry cannot produce what it seems to promise. It feels productive but only subtracts peace, joy, rest, and presence from our lives without adding anything.
  • The shift from worry to prayer is the practical answer Jesus and Scripture offer. Prayer does not always change the circumstances, but it changes who is carrying them, and that makes all the difference.
  • Everything in Matthew 6 has been building toward this point: because the Father is our treasure, our vision, and our Master, we can trust Him with what we cannot control.

  Ending Prayer

  Lord, thank you for this time together and for the reminder that we do not have to carry what was never ours to carry. We confess that we often pick up tomorrow’s burdens and try to manage them with today’s strength, and we are exhausted by it. Right now, we choose to place those burdens back into your hands. You are faithful, you are good, and you love us more than we can fully understand. Guard our hearts and our minds with the peace that only you can give, the peace that passes all understanding. Help us to walk out of here a little lighter, and to return to prayer every time worry tries to pull us back. We trust you, Father, with what we cannot control. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  Steve Lawes is a Church Consultant and also provides coaching for pastors, churches, ministries and church planters.